I didn’t grow up in the streets, but I grew up in a world that didn’t let me breathe soft. My world was filled with the voices and presence of girls; my sisters, my cousins, and a powerful mother whose strength could silence a room. You’d think growing up surrounded by women would make me gentle. Maybe softer. Maybe more open. But it didn’t. It made me gangster. Not the type with a gun or a crew behind him. But the kind who learned early on that emotions are dangerous if left unchecked. The kind who keeps moving even when the weight of the world is sitting on his shoulders. The kind who shows up, who endures, who stays silent not because he's heartless, but because he was raised around people who had no choice but to hold everything in and keep going. See, when you grow up watching women carry pain like it’s just part of the day, you learn to do the same. I saw tears wiped away before they had time to fall. I saw tired bodies still cooking, cleaning, working, taking care of eve...